{"id":1752,"date":"2022-05-20T00:26:37","date_gmt":"2022-05-20T04:26:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/?p=1752"},"modified":"2022-05-20T07:18:04","modified_gmt":"2022-05-20T11:18:04","slug":"3-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/?p=1752","title":{"rendered":"3 years&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA-1200x1533.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1753\" width=\"348\" height=\"445\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA-1200x1533.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA-744x950.jpg 744w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA-420x536.jpg 420w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA-768x981.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA-1203x1536.jpg 1203w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/zfEsG3VZTIaO-PAbRHJVcA.jpg 1565w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 348px) 100vw, 348px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>My Mother (1938 &#8211; 2019)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Man, oh, man&#8230; It&#8217;s been 3 years since my Mom died.  I really can&#8217;t believe that it has been that long, but also with all that&#8217;s happened in the world in the last 2 years, it feels like longer than 3 years.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I really hate cancer.  She was 81 years old when she died.  She did live a long life and no matter how long, I wish I had one more day with her.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831-1200x1600.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1754\" width=\"533\" height=\"710\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831-1200x1600.jpeg 1200w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831-744x992.jpeg 744w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831-420x560.jpeg 420w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/20220514_115831.jpeg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 533px) 100vw, 533px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Gatlin Cemetery.  My mother and father are both buried here.  Taken Decoration Day 2022 by niece, Brittany.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We used to have conversations about my job hunt.  She&#8217;d always say, &#8220;I just don&#8217;t understand why nobody will hire you.&#8221;  I would respond, &#8220;Me, too.&#8221; I know she&#8217;d be so proud of me today and I know she&#8217;s smiling in Heaven knowing how I got that job we always talked about me getting.   I alway want to make my parents proud.  I think I have done it this time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love and miss you both.  Today is such a sad day that three years ago today, mom died.  But she went the way she wanted to with all 3 of her boys at her side and nobody else around.  Peacefully and at home.   RIP, Mom.  Love you!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Man, oh, man&#8230; It&#8217;s been 3 years since my Mom died. I really can&#8217;t believe that it has been that long, but also with all that&#8217;s happened in the world<a href=\"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/?p=1752\" class=\"more-link\"><span class=\"readmore\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">3 years&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1753,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1752","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1752"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1752\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1758,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1752\/revisions\/1758"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1753"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mmolenda.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}